13 Life-Changing Lessons I Learned From Meeting Arnold Schwarzenegger!

I Met My Childhood Hero and This is What He Taught Me!

I had the absolute pleasure and honor of meeting Arnold Schwarzenegger at the Arnold Classic in Columbus, Ohio recently. Arnold has reached an unprecedented level of success in a multitude of diverse areas and is clearly one of the most iconic individuals on the planet. I’ve watched his movies. I’ve read his books. Now I’ve had the opportunity to hear him speak and shake his hand. It’s cool to meet one of your childhood heroes, especially when they are still cool.

Arnold isn’t just a celebrity. He was governor of California twice! He is an incredible chess player. He is a statesman, a philanthropist, author, speaker, actor, and more! The more I learn about him, the more impressed I become. He strives to improve in all areas of life. I’m into that. I wish I could have asked him questions or interviewed him on my podcast, but just to hear him speak and shake his hand was really cool too.

This is some of what he has taught me:

1. Your Name is Your Brand: Early in his career people tried talk Arnold out of using his real name, Schwarzenegger. They thought it would deter people. He’s now an icon! Make your name mean something. Your reputation and personal integrity are invaluable assets in life. Everything you do reflects on your name, so always uphold it. Arnold’s name represents so much in fitness, public service, movies, books, and more!

2. Fit First. Fit Final: Arnold’s focus on fitness created the discipline and habits that transferred to all areas of life. Physical fitness is not just about looking good; it’s about being disciplined, committed, and resilient. It’s a metaphor for life—building strength and endurance to face challenges head-on. Focus on getting fitter and you will improve in other areas too. He’s 76, just got a pacemaker, and he’s still rocking the gym. Let’s go! This is my #1 Goal this year.

3. Stay Relevant: Arnold is as popular now as he ever was. He’s got a hit TV show, podcast, making movies, writing bestsellers, and more. He’s been doing this for over 50 years. Luck? I think not! Adaptability and staying current are essential in a rapidly changing world. Embrace new ideas and technologies to remain relevant in your field.

4. Be Good and Kind: Arnold is a giver, and he always has been. I love that about him. I watched him look out for others. Success means nothing if it comes at the expense of others. Use your platform and resources to lift others up. I respect him so much for his commitment to the Special Olympics. Always strive to be a good person and show kindness and compassion to those around you.

5. Make Time for Others: I watched Arnold at the Arnold Classic take time to talk with everyday people like me. He just likes people! It’s awesome! I have seen so many people make it and quit connecting as if they are above that.  True fulfillment comes from meaningful connections and relationships. Prioritize spending time with loved ones and supporting those in need.

6. Build & Rule Your Empire Well: I love that Arnold is awesome at a lot of different things! I remember him starring in Conan the Barbarian, and he really has become the warrior king. He has built an empire and takes care of a lot of people. It is cool to see in real life. Success is not just about achieving your goals but also about managing them effectively. Build your empire with integrity and lead with purpose.

7. Celebrate Others: Watching Arnold watch amateur athletes at the Arnold Classic was really fun. He celebrated everyone as if they were world champions. He looks for the good in others first and foremost. Acknowledge and celebrate the achievements of others. A rising tide lifts all boats, and supporting others’ success can contribute to your own.

8. Keep Adding Multiple Revenue Streams and Never Stop: Movies, sports, books, television, podcasts, apps, workout videos, newsletters and everywhere imaginable, you will find Arnold. If you want to be successful you need more than one stream of income. Diversify your sources of income and always be open to new opportunities for growth and financial stability.

9. Build a Community and Keep Them Excited: Arnold’s newsletter is great. I read it every morning. His community on his Pump Club App is on fire! Arnold has a way of bringing people together and getting them excited about the possibility of what could be. Cultivate a loyal community around your brand or mission and keep them engaged and enthusiastic about what you’re doing. It can be in the classroom, your family, or a side hustle. Build a community not customers.

10. Make Someone Else the Villain: Arnold absolutely takes ownership for his mistakes, but he has some fun with it too. I watched him speak in Columbus and someone asked if he would be on their podcast. (I’d like in on that too. LOL.) Arnold did NOT say no, instead he said, “Yes, I would love to but Keshel is responsible for booking me on podcasts. He checks on all of that and if I cannot make it, blame him,” and he laughed. It was pretty cool. Take responsibility for your actions and avoid blaming others for your failures or setbacks, but have some fun with it too. Explain to others why it might not work out. Don’t say yes and not do it, and don’t say no either.

11. Have an Annual Event and Keep Improving It: Arnold looked like he was with family at the Arnold Classic that he holds once a year, and I believe it to be true. I think we should all create an annual event to reconnect and celebrate with others. I know I am now going to do that. Create traditions or events that bring people together and continually strive to make them better each year. Arnold does!

12. Positivity Wins: Arnold seems to always have a smile on his face, even when lifting heavy weights and flexing. (Except maybe in the movies when he is fighting Predator.) Maintain a positive attitude even in the face of challenges. Optimism and resilience can help you overcome obstacles and achieve your goals.

13. Partner with Others: Arnold’s a BIG deal, but he understands the importance of partnering with others like the editors of his newsletter Adam Borstein and Danny Keschel as well as other actors and leaders in his lifetime. As an actor, governor, and businessman, Arnold is smart to make partnerships and work with others. We need to do the same. Collaboration and partnerships can amplify your impact and bring about mutually beneficial outcomes.

I really could easily add thirteen more, but this is already too long. I recommend reading his books, joining his Pump Club app, and subscribing to his newsletter.

Arnold is a competitor. He seeks competition because it pushes him. I heard him tell others to Get a Mission! Work Hard! and Be Useful! I became a founding member of his Pump Club and I would love to interview him on my Wired Educator Podcast to inspire educators and students and talk about his commitment to The Special Olympics.

Arnold Schwarzenegger’s wisdom encompasses far more than just lifting weights or starring in action movies. His insights into success, integrity, and resilience are applicable to all aspects of life. Let’s embrace these lessons and strive to become the best versions of ourselves, just as Arnold has done throughout his extraordinary life.

The two books I read of his are:

Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life 

and

Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder (Which teaches us how to get after our goals.)

In case you haven’t figured it out, I’m sorta a big fan of Arnold. I wanted to share this very special memory with you.

Let’s continue to inspire and uplift one another. Everyone has something to teach us, whether they are as famous as Arnold, a colleague or neighbor. Take time to connect and learn from everyone we encounter.

Always forward,

Kelly

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Newsletter: Nov 3, 2021: 4 Ideas to Knock Around! Cheer for Yourself! How to Read More! Mental Wellness Tools and Tips! Take the Garbage Out!

My November 3, 2021 Newsletter

Four Awesome Ideas to Level-Up and Design a Better Life!

Hello there!

Something great is around the next corner for you, now let’s get to 4 Ideas to Knock Around, shall we?

  1. Quote I’m Reflecting on: “Spend more time cheering for yourself than your favorite sports team. Most people do the opposite and wonder why they’re so unhappy.” ~Jarek Lewis
  2. How to Read More Books Than You Ever Imagined: I recently came across an amazing app for my phone called that provides written and audio summaries of books that I can consume like potato chips. (If you’ve never seen me consume potato chips, you’re welcome.) I was skeptical of Blinkist, but tried the free , and then I fell in love. I know I’ll never be able to consume all the books I want to read about becoming a better human, building a better business, and many other important categories, yet Blinkist breaks down the core concepts of books I know I’ll never get to and offers it in easily consumable “blinks” that allow me to get the gist of an entire book in about 12 minutes. I kid you not. I’m now a subscriber. Yes, of course I still read, and a lot, and I still listen to audio books on Audible, regularly, but I love Blinkist for those books that I just want the essence of to apply in my life. . That’s saying a lot.
  3. Awesome Mental Wellness Tips & Tools: I recently attended a presentation by Denny Doughty and Lonnie Rivera where they mentioned some quick and easy ways to improve mental wellness from legend speaker and poverty expert, Ruby Payne. Their tips included: water, tapping and touch, looking up, and breathing techniques. I NEVER knew water could impact anxiety. I had heard of some tapping techniques in the past, but I was very skeptical, a friend shared the app with me and well… I am finding value. Looking up!?! Who knew that looking up, that’s right, just looking at the ceiling can improve your mental wellness. That’s easy enough to do. Breathing in for 4 seconds, holding the breath for 4 seconds, and slowly letting it go for 4, was also mentioned, and that is a practice I employed in my children’s book, . Try these out and let me know how they go! I am putting all to use. Yes, I deal with anxiety every day. Some days it is a war, so I need every weapon imaginable.
  4. Take Out the Garbage: A Message From Me: “The garbage in this world isn’t just physical pollution. I love and admire people who decide to contribute and help. So many people either act as if it is someone else’s job, or they just don’t care. Kindness and check-ins are elite actions. Not fluff. How we deal with ‘pollution’ is a measure of our own personal and professional leadership. How do we stop contributing? How do we help clean it up? Too many pass it by or just point. I am fully committed to making the world a better place. I will not allow the negativity nor pessimism of others to delay or derail me.”

Thank you for being a part of this newsletter. I hope you will share it with a colleague, family member, or friend.

Kelly

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Knockabout Newsletter: Wired Educator Publishes First Author/Educator, Keven Rinaman

I am excited to announce that Wired Educator has published its first book, 3DU: A Guide to 3D Printing in Every Classroom, written by Keven Rinaman.

If your school has a 3D Printer, it needs this book. Keven provides simple and affordable ways to start 3D printing in ANY classroom, no matter what grade or content area. Yes, EVERY educator can use 3D printing to engage students and help them create. As the host of The Wired Educator Podcast it has always been my primary mission to celebrate and promote the voices of outstanding educators. I am proud to celebrate the outstanding work of Keven Rinaman and share his voice and message with the world.

The Wired Educator Motto is, “To Level Up and Make a Difference in the Lives of Students”. Keven’s book does that and more. Keven’s book emphasizes that students should be using devices to create MORE than they consume. I love the possibilities and direction Keven offers teachers to bring 3D printing to every grade and every content area.It gives me great pride to help a fellow educator publish a physical book that another educator can hold in their hands, apply in their classroom, add to and pass along to others. This is the first book published by Wired Educator. I can feel the impact this book will have in students’ lives, I can picture the amazing creations students will design and produce, I can hear the laughs of failed prints, and the cheers of success as students and teachers collaborate together to create an environment of learning where experimentation, reflection on failure, and the tenacity to try again until they succeed is the norm.

Congratulations Keven on an amazing book and making a global impact on education. Well done.

~Kelly Croy

Keven Rinaman is an educator and author.

He has taught history, math, and technology at middle and high school grades, and has served as the technology director and Dean of Students for his district. Keven has coached numerous sports including: wrestling, golf, baseball and esports. He is a graduate of Heidelberg University and Western Governors University, earning both his Bachelor’s and Master’s degree. He also serves as an adjunct professor at Tiffin University.

Keven is the author of 3DU: A Guide to 3D Printing in Every Classroom, the host of an educational podcast titled, Magic Potion EDU, and blogs at TeachersTechToolbox.com. Keven has spoken at numerous national and regional conferences including FETC and OETC.

Keven lives with his wife Katie, and son, Cooper in Tiffin, Ohio. Contact Keven at kevenrinaman@gmail.com

Book description: Did your school purchase a 3D printer for teachers to use? Did someone donate one to your classroom and you are not sure how you will use it with your students? Check out 3DU: A Guide to 3D Printing in Every Classroom. This book is full of project ideas and lessons that will help any teacher, in any grade level, and in any content area, learn how they can use this technology with their students.

Starting with the basics of vocabulary and how the printer functions, readers will then embark on a journey that features projects and lessons that dive deeper with their students and make a cultural shift from consumption to creation. This book will give students the opportunity to get hands-on with their learning and make objects that demonstrate their understanding of classroom content through creative means.​

3DU is for you if…

  • You are a teacher eager to engage students with your content.
  • You want students to design, create, and find solutions.
  • You are an administrator leading instructional change toward a 21st-century learning environment.
    You want to create opportunities of hope, fun, and fulfillment for students.
  • Wired Educator Consulting, Inc. will be publishing the voices of more educators over the next year. Stay tuned.

Kelly Croy is the host of The Wired Educator Podcast and founder of Wired Educator Consulting, Inc.

January 1, 2021: Knockabout Newsletter: Free Gifts, Quote, Listening, Fun, Better Human, Question, Join me for live session

I hope you and your family had an awesome holiday break. Everyone on the planet has earned some time to rest, relax, and rejuvenate. I hope you found yours.

My family and I are very excited that our oldest daughter, Allyson, was engaged on Christmas morning. Amazing! We are blessed!

I’m preparing for the new year as I always do, with a brand new journal, an ink pen, and my goals. This year I added some new strategies looking at how I plan my week and individual days too.

1. Two free gifts for you:

I’m sharing two tried and tested tools in this email to help you start your new year. The first is my ebook The Greatest Year of Your Life. It is 50+ pages of insight on how to start your year off right and keep it going to deliver the results you seek. The second is a leadership tool I designed to help leaders make an optimum impact; I call it the Leadership Matrix. It is a tool to help you lead your best, whether it be at home, at work, or in your community.

2. Quote I am reflecting on:

“You’re valuing someone else’s opinion too much.”

~Gary Vaynerchuk

3. What I am listening to:

My wife and I joined Audible.com this past year to listen to some books during our commutes. I have enjoyed that very much. Recently I found a version of The Little Drummer Boy by The Bird and Bee featuring Dave Grohl that I love. (I’m a rocker.) It is enchanting for any time of the year.

4. Something Fun:

Over on Instagram from December 1 to December 24, I flexed my art muscles a bit and drew a Santa every day until Christmas. I included a timelapse, 30-second video of me creating it. Last night I added a Baby New Year 2021 drawing and animation. My user name is kcroy if you are interested in checking them out. Drawing is fun and relaxes me.

5. Becoming a Better Human:

I recently removed all social media from my iPhone for about 60 days. I watched a documentary on Netflix called the Social Dilemma that influenced this experiment. The documentary explained how social media manipulates us. During the experiment, I only used social media once during the day in the evening on my iPad. I added it back to my iPhone during the holiday break. I enjoyed being in control of social media. I also found I approached social media differently; I enjoyed engaging with others with positive comments on a deeper level more than the mindless scrolling. Whether we have social media on our phones or not is not necessarily what my focus is; I am more intrigued by how we use them, or they use us. I want to be in control.

6. My Question for You:

What is something you need to do this year to build better relationships with others? Who?

Bonus Opportunities:

Join me and my dog, Jedi, as we do a read aloud of our book Unthink Before Bed, LIVE on Facebook this Sunday, January 3, 2021 at 7:00 PM EST. It’s Free. It’s fun. It’s for 30 minutes. You can watch it at: www.facebook.com/kellyshawncroy

Would you like a Free Wired Educator Podcast sticker? Complete this form to get your FREE Wired Educator Podcast Sticker: https://forms.gle/RsEBuVwkapeGTc9D6

Interested in working with me? Each year I work with few people virtually to help them achieve their goals. I have helped educators publish books, start podcasts, become keynote speakers at conferences, and more. I might be able to help you. Does that interest you? Once a year I send out a survey asking interested people to fill out an application. It’s super short. I pick three or four people and contact them and I become their accountability partner. It’s that simple. If you’re at all interested and think I might be the person that can help you finish that project that you always dreamt about finishing. Just fill out the form. It doesn’t mean we will work together but it means we could. I would love to be a help to you. Complete this Application Form if you are interested in having me coach you : https://forms.gle/NNo6KUHqu9NBUNM47

Thank you for being a part of this newsletter.

I am wishing you much peace & prosperity, good health & happiness, and love & laughter in this new year.

Kelly

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